It is your bubble...not mine!

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"....but I thought you never did this..."
"I thought you don't do this..."
"I know you will do this..."
"You are ____..dont _____"

You thought.You assumed.You figured that out.
You assumed I was being arrogant by not saying anything.Maybe I was shy.
You assumed I was dumb and didn't know anything.Maybe I chose not to say anything.
You assumed I was ok with it.Maybe I just chose to let it pass.
You assumed I was not hurt.Maybe I decided not to show.
You assumed that I lied.Maybe you don't have your facts right.

I'm not saying I don't judge people the first time I meet them.I do.There are a lot of people I hated when I first met them.People who I thought were plain weird.People who I thought were immature.People who seemed a lot of things until I decided to take a chance,go and talk to them and find out for real.Most of them are my best friends now.(My judgement is not that bad.Some of them were really freaky people.)

Like the well used example of  tinted glasses.The world appears different when you presume.Take off your tinted glasses for a minute and have a look.If your assumption is true, it will be the same even with them off.Maybe how you judge people and treat them doesn't matter to you.Maybe how you act towards them make make or break their day.Maybe it will give them a reason to cry or to smile.Maybe -a lot of things,that I can't think of yet that might change in your case.If you chose to stick to your assumptions,well then the loss is yours.If you still want to judge your way,the assumption is yours.And when you find out the truth,the bubble that bursts isn't mine ...its yours!

Give me a chance.Give anyone you have assumed something about a chance.Maybe there is more than meets the eye -good,bad or ugly.Now I'm not saying you will like everything you hear or see.But why lose a potential friend over a sketchy assumption.

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